It is a common sentiment that fathers have historically had a tough time gaining child custody. “Father’s custody rights” is a concept that wasn’t widely discussed or considered in most family law cases. Historically, it was more of a cultural norm than a legal principle to award custody to the mother. Thankfully times have changed and fortunately courts consider much more than a parent’s gender when it comes to custody battles. In fact, the family law act and family court judges prefer that the child have a relationship with both parents if it’s in the child best interests.
What does this mean for a father’s custody rights?
While father’s custody rights might be a topic for a men’s rights organization, family law is much more concerned about a child’s best interest. A court understands the important role that both parents play in a child’s life BUT only when it is in the child’s best interest. If spending time with the mother or the father isn’t for some reason in the best interest of the child, then the court won’t award it. Here are some key facts when it comes to father custody rights:
- Can you provide for your family? No court wants to deliver a child to a parent that isn’t able to provide for the children. You’ll want to have your documents in order, so you can prove to the courts that you can provide a financially stable situation for your kids.
- Are you near other family members? Courts may take into account the extent to which a parent has an extended support network. While it may not be the sole factor in question, being able to show that extended family is near you may be able to help your case. If the kids have aunts, uncles, grandparents, or siblings nearby, the courts could look favorably on your position when you’re seeking custody rights.
- Are you being fair to the other parent? It’s natural, in this situation, to have negative feelings toward your former partner. It’s imperative that you not criticize that person in front of the child.
- Can you co-parent? Can you speak respectfully to and reach an agreement with the other parent about custody arrangements?
- Are you currently involved in the child’s life? Even if you don’t see the kids too often at the moment, it’s vital that you do what you can to be involved. Meeting their friends and going to school meetings are good places to start.
Is there a preference for male family lawyers?
Any divorced dad that loves his kids can feel overwhelmed in a custody battle and will often search for a law firm for men. However, it’s more important to seek out a law professional who is experienced with the family law without regards to whether they are male or female. At Cudmore Legal, we have both female and male family lawyers for men, call us today (07) 3317 8346 for a confidential chat.